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Kim ([personal profile] highdreams) wrote2010-06-06 10:31 pm
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D: friends cut

Oh deer. I just did a friends cut. If you’re removed and you read this; it’s nothing personal. Some I cut because I never talk to them (anymore), others because I don’t even know them and/or don’t remember why we became friends in the first place.

If you want to be added back, just leave a comment here.

To those who stayed: ♥

omg, i feel soooo bad now.

[identity profile] chosenfire28.livejournal.com 2010-06-06 08:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Not cut, YES!!!!

and OMG I need to do a friends cut, have been for months but I've been dragging my feet about it. I don't want anyone to feel bad, but I am following too many comms and people, and my flist is huge.

[identity profile] highdreams.livejournal.com 2010-06-06 08:43 pm (UTC)(link)
\o/ DUH. <3

IKR? That's the main reason why I did the cut - my flist was getting out of control. That, and I don't want my flocked posts to be read by people I don't even know or never spoken to. Not that my flocked posts are that exciting, but there's still personal and RL stuff there, so...

But I do feel bad, though - it's why I avoided doing this for so long. :P

[identity profile] shazza-018.livejournal.com 2010-06-06 09:02 pm (UTC)(link)
I always get nervous when someone does a friends cut...thanks for keeping me! ♥

[identity profile] highdreams.livejournal.com 2010-06-06 09:06 pm (UTC)(link)
That's why I hated doing this D: It's no fun.

And I'll always keep you ♥

[identity profile] chavelaprincess.livejournal.com 2010-06-06 09:05 pm (UTC)(link)

Don't feel bad bb. This is your journal. And you are very nice but you should be able to do what you want with it.

And for the reasons you listed, they might not notice or care since you don't talk to them or know them, you know?
Don't feel bad bb. ♥

Just glad I'm still here. *loves*

[identity profile] highdreams.livejournal.com 2010-06-06 09:09 pm (UTC)(link)

I could never cut you ♥ Thank you, bb <3 And I guess you're right about that - but still, it was not fun to do. I KNOW I don't like it when someone removes me and mostly that is my fault, because I never comment on their entries. But it still stings, you know? Oh well, if people really want to be here, they can always just ask and tell me why they want to stay friends. =)

[identity profile] chavelaprincess.livejournal.com 2010-06-07 01:00 am (UTC)(link)
Oh well, if people really want to be here, they can always just ask and tell me why they want to stay friends.
EXACTLY girlie!
That's all that they have to do. I know I've been cut for not commenting and I liked the person and explained and they added me back. And vice versa. I've done TONS of cuts in the past and the ones that didn't like it, we talked it out and I either friended them again or not depending on the situation.

But I know it didn't feel good to do it. But I think it is a positive move.


[identity profile] alovehangover.livejournal.com 2010-06-06 09:16 pm (UTC)(link)
lol i always get nervous with friends-cuts, idk why! i should do this too though but i'm so scared people will think i'm a bitch or something! haha.

[identity profile] highdreams.livejournal.com 2010-06-07 05:52 pm (UTC)(link)
i know what you mean! D: i felt really bad after cutting all those people. but i sort of had to do it - my flist was totally out of control, lol :P

[identity profile] kitteninfinland.livejournal.com 2010-06-06 09:19 pm (UTC)(link)
♥♥♥ and thank you for not cutting me out :)

[identity profile] highdreams.livejournal.com 2010-06-07 05:53 pm (UTC)(link)
♥ of course not, bb! :D

[identity profile] egotists.livejournal.com 2010-06-06 09:45 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you for keeping me bb!

[identity profile] highdreams.livejournal.com 2010-06-07 05:54 pm (UTC)(link)
♥ we may not talk much, sam, but i love having you on my flist and could never ever cut you <333

[identity profile] anavill.livejournal.com 2010-06-06 09:46 pm (UTC)(link)
i embrace my own, very small, very personal flist greatly <3 and totally get the sentiment behind trying to control it a little especially when you put real life issues here as well as fandom ones. so dont feel bad! *hug* also i know you took care to remove only those who you dont remember talking to at all as im still here ( and i only appear from time to time ;)

[identity profile] highdreams.livejournal.com 2010-06-07 05:59 pm (UTC)(link)
(((hugs))) we may not talk much, but i really like you and whenever we do talk it's always fun. you don't need to comment on every entry, cause i sure as hell don't do that either, lol. it'd be a day job to keep up with everyone. :P

[identity profile] glitzy09.livejournal.com 2010-06-06 11:20 pm (UTC)(link)
Its not fun doing a friends cut but there's no point having people on there you don't even know, esp if you're posting RL stuff. I try to keep my flist small so I can keep up with everyone on it so I totally understand your feelings. Thanks for keeping me <3333

[identity profile] highdreams.livejournal.com 2010-06-07 06:02 pm (UTC)(link)
exactly! it was no fun, but definitely a necessity. it was getting out of control.

of course i'm keeping you. we only just met and i really like you :D

[identity profile] gothic-elvis.livejournal.com 2010-06-06 11:27 pm (UTC)(link)
Eeeeeeeee thanks for keeping me bb! <3333 :D

[identity profile] highdreams.livejournal.com 2010-06-07 06:03 pm (UTC)(link)


Of course I'm keeping you, bb. ♥

[identity profile] carameltrap.livejournal.com 2010-06-07 01:52 am (UTC)(link)
You have to do what you have to do. I prefer to keep my mutual f-list small. And thanks for not cutting me. :D

[identity profile] highdreams.livejournal.com 2010-06-07 06:04 pm (UTC)(link)
Like I could ever cut you ♥ NEVER. :D

[identity profile] neednotwant.livejournal.com 2010-06-07 05:03 am (UTC)(link)
You're such a sweetheart Kim ♥ Thanks for keeping me :D

[identity profile] highdreams.livejournal.com 2010-06-07 06:05 pm (UTC)(link)
♥ I'll always keep you. You'll never get rid of me :P

[identity profile] bambiblake007.livejournal.com 2010-06-07 05:17 am (UTC)(link)
yay thanx for keeping me around :) \o/

[identity profile] highdreams.livejournal.com 2010-06-07 06:07 pm (UTC)(link)
\o/ :D

[identity profile] novelized.livejournal.com 2010-06-07 07:49 am (UTC)(link)
i'm glad you kept me! :D <3333

[identity profile] highdreams.livejournal.com 2010-06-07 06:07 pm (UTC)(link)

[identity profile] claire-kay.livejournal.com 2010-06-07 04:14 pm (UTC)(link)
-still here-
I've never done a friends cut before. I think I'm too lazy lol
ilu, Kim x hope you are well :)

[identity profile] highdreams.livejournal.com 2010-06-07 06:10 pm (UTC)(link)
AHAHA. Of course you're still here! You're my bb. <3

I'm good, hon! Just very busy with the last few weeks of school. Work is really crazy atm. D: How are you? And Erin? I bet she's growing fast. :D Thijs (Daan's little brother) is now almost two months old and he's already getting so big. He's a little grump, tho. Always frowning and looking like he's mad. It's adorable <3

[identity profile] claire-kay.livejournal.com 2010-06-08 02:36 pm (UTC)(link)

I bet! It must be a crazy time for you. I am good, just trying to figure out some stuff at the moment but I'll get there :)

Erin is beautiful, she is just over 5 months now and she is big as well. She is very chatty and wriggly and just beautiful. It's hard to be anything but happy when around her. I'm sure you feel the same though :)